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Why You Must Not Endure Domestic Violence in Your Marriage


Why You Must Not Endure Domestic Violence in Your Marriage


    I read a story today about a man who lost his life to domestic violence and I felt very sad. According to neighbors and eye witnesses they said the domestic violence has been going on for a while until it finally led to the death of the man

    Agreed, marriage isn't a bed of Roses, in fact it is filled with a lot of thorns that when if not carefully removed can destroy or break the marriage. If you as a man or woman can not handle a disagreement without being violent then you need to quickly seek for help.


    If every time you disagree with your spouse you resort to violence then you have a serious anger management issue which needs to be taken care of. It is not simply resolved by always asking for forgiveness or buying your spouse a gift to make up. It is a serious issue that has to be addressed which can not be swept under the carpet. Get help immediately!

                              

    If you are a victim of domestic violence, speak out! Don’t endure nor pretend that all is well. You are playing with your life. You are sitting on a time bomb that can explode at any time. Get help! Talk to friends and family. If your spouse doesn't change, do not be carried away by his or her constant plea and gifts, you are only extending the danger day.

    Some of you experiencing domestic violence in your marriage started experiencing it at a point in your courtship! But still went ahead and married the person with the hope that he or she will change. Don’t be deceived, some characters don't change after marriage, it becomes worse!


    If the person can be violent towards you when the flames of love is burning between you both then you should expect the worse when you are married. If he or she is violent towards you before marriage same would be done to you after marriage. This also goes for cheating, if you catch him or her cheating before marriage there is a  tendency that it will still be repeated even after marriage,

    Never be ashamed of what people will say or how the society will treat you, it’s better to be alive than be late (If you love your life). Even if you endure everything in your marriage, don’t ever endure domestic violence. You don’t need to divorce your spouse but you can seek legal separation till your partner get the needed help required.

    If you stay in a domestic violence relationship then it shows you don’t cherish your life neither do you consider or value your kid's interest. Exposing your kids to domestic violence affect them negatively and if you don’t stop exposing them to this then they might end up doing the same

    There are lots of organisations helping out victims of domestic violence, speak to them and they will give you the needed help and support you need. If anyone tells you to endure domestic violence please I beg of you never listen. You are a human being so you deserve to be treated as one.

    No one has the right to lift a finger on you simply because you are married to him or her. Your spouse is suppose to be your friend, your soul mate, your confidant and not turn you into his or her punching bag. Once you accept to be turned into a punching bag then you will continue to be a punching bag and might end up loosing your life.
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